Bill of Assertive Rights
Psychologist Manuel J. Smith points out that everyone has certain important rights. He calls them "A Bill of Assertive Rights":
- You have the right to judge your own behaviour, thoughts, and emotions, and to take the responsibility for their initiation and consequences upon yourself.
- You have the right to offer no reasons or excuses for justifying your behaviour.
- You have the right to judge whether you are responsible for finding solutions to other people's problems.
- You have the right to change your mind.
- You have the right to make mistakes - and be responsible for them.
- You have the right to say, "I don't know."
- You have the right to be independent of the goodwill of others before coping with them.
- You have the right to be illogical in making decisions.
- You have the right to say, "I don't understand."
- You have the right to say, "I don't care."
Manuel J. Smith, When I Say No, I Feel Guilty (New York: Bantam, 1975)
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Do you agree with the above?
Labels: Motivation
2 Comments:
So... I have right to be a rocker but not look like a rocker? :P
Oh, of course!!! ;-)
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